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Harris Children Lizzie                            Jon Jon New Picture UPDATE: 7-11-03 Just wanted to let you know that Jonathon did well with his procedure today. The surgeon was able to go in and close up the fistula (j-tube stoma) and he is sure we should have no problems. Jon Jon was a trooper as always, however seems to be a little out of sorts. It has been a long few days for him and I am sure he will be glad that we are NOT going to any doctors or to the hospital tomorrow. I am to give him Tylenol every four hours for the next 2 days and that should help with any discomfort. He seems tender, as to be expected - but should heal up just fine. Thank you all for your prayers. This has been a rough month for us and it is only the 9th!! - We have 3 more visits to the hospital, one lab visit and then surgery for the removal of his tonsils and adenoids (which will be an overnight stay). We will surely be thankful for the 1st of August!! Oh mustn't forget that we were able to discharge two of Jon's 10 medications so he is now down to 8!!! Whoopee! Be Blessed Abundantly, Renee UPDATE: 7-10-03 Just wanted you to keep Jon Jon in your prayers as he will be sedated for the second time in 9 days as his stoma (hole) where his j-tube was will not close. It seems he has granulation tissue and it is causing the site to remain open. The surgeon will have to cut out and around the tissue, so the opening in the inside of the stomach and then close off the top. Instead of another "belly button or bullet" looking wound Jon will have a regular scar. We were also at the hospital all morning today for his gastric emptying and barium enema. I do not have all the results in yet - but do know that Jon Jon does not have Herschprungs (spg?) but does have a long colon! Doesn't tell me much - but will be seeing the gastroeterologist for a follow up and will be seeing the urologist next week. Hopefully we will again have definitive answers. As always your prayers are coveted. Be Blessed Abundantly, Renee UPDATE: 7-01-03 Wanted to thank you all for your prayers this morning. Jon Jon did very well - and although we had to be there by 5:30 AM for a 7 AM procedure that takes 15 minutes - we all managed (we're tired - but we managed!) The pressure in Jon's eyes has increased. Normal is 11 through 14 and he had pressure of 15 - 16 in his left and 30 in his right. The increased pressure would indicate glaucoma, however the calcification on his right eye seems to be the cause for the increased pressure in the eye. All things said and done, his right eye is completely non functional. Because he has not used his eye for so long his brain has terminated the connections and there is no chance of repair. He as also lost some more vision in his functioning eye (left) - he needs new lenses as his myopia (nearsightedness) is now -8.5!. We will continue the medication for his right eye that is given for glaucoma until it is discharged as it can effect his cardiovascular system and eventually will do nothing for his eye. Jonathon remains legally blind because of his nystagmus (wobbly eyes) and will eventually become medically blind in his right eye. I know this may seem like devastating news, but these are things we have known and are relieved to finally have an answer. Jon Jon always sounds worse on paper - as functually Jon has no idea that he has limited vision that is impaired with only having one functioning eye! As an added note we were unable to see the surgeon today- so we will wait to see if his stoma closes by Monday - if it does not we will have to have it surgically closed! Thanks so much for your prayers. Be Blessed Abundantly, Renee UPDATE: 6-30-03 Just wanted to ask if you would say a little prayer for my son. Tomorrow morning at 7 a.m. he will have yet another sedated eye exam. I am asking you to believe with me that we will have definitive answers regarding his vision, retinas and corneas. Jon Jon has several procedures schedule this month along with having his tonsils and adenoids being removed on the 31st. If the Lord lays him on your heart - please pray that all goes well, that the procedures are not stressful on Jon and that we have "absolute answers". It is aggravating to have all these things done to your child and end up with no more direction than when you went in. Also - we will stop in an see his surgeon as his j-tube sight is still leaking and his stoma is raw and irritated (as is his tummy from the allergic reaction he had to the adhesive). I would like the surgeon to stitch it closed or for it to be touched by God and heal immediately. The God I serve could do the latter in a heartbeat!.... As usual, I covet your prayers and will keep you posted... Be Blessed Abundantly, Renee UPDATE: 6-25-03 Just wanted to thank you all for your prayers - Jon Jon's j tube site looks a bit better. (He had it removed yesterday - although he still has his g-tube). It isn't leaking quite as much today. I have loaded his tummy up with barrier cream (where the tape made his skin raw) and desitin with crushed tums all around the site. I used some gauze on the site and then wrapped his belly with an ace bandage for pressure. He seems to be doing better today and we even got out for a bit to get some sun on our belly. Jon doesn't seem pleased with his button being gone - he keeps looking at his belly - I am sure to him he is lopsided!! Also wanted you to keep him in your prayers as he will be sedated Tuesday morning for an eye exam. Going in on the 9th for a gastric emptying and barrier enema (to see what the deal is with his BM's or lack thereof) and will be getting his tonsils and adenoids out on the 30th of July. Oh - and one more thing - praise God - his EEG came back normal - Jon Jon is not having seizures!! Be Blessed Abundantly, Renee UPDATE: 6-23-03 I just wanted to let you know that the doctor was able to remove Jon Jon's j-tube today. Although Jon is still g-tube dependant, he has not used his j-tube since last October. We have been having problems with it leaking stomach acid and remaining raw, so it was time to have it removed. I would ask that you pray for Jon's comfort as the Lord lays him on your heart. Not to be graphic - But there is a hole in my sons stomach that goes to the inside of his tummy. It usually takes 72 hours for the hole to close completely - but in the meantime food/stomach acid leaks out. Jon Jon had an allergic reaction to the tape used to hold the gauze in place when the button was removed and his tummy was leaking some after his last meal and it burned his skin awful - he was screaming in pain (woken from a deep sleep). As always your prayers are coveted. Be Blessed Abundantly~ Renee UPDATE: 6-20-03 Just wanted to thank you all for your prayers and support. Jon Jon saw his allergist today and of course today Jon was having a great day (although he hadn't had anything to "eat" since midnight because of the EEG). The allergist feels that skin prick test we had done several months ago was negative - Jon Jon does not have allergies? MMMM, wonder what he is suffering with? Any how - he ordered blood work for a RAST test to check for allergies and is increasing his one med. I sure hope the blood work shows something positive as I would like to know why my son has dark circles under his eyes, a runny nose and excess mucous! As for the EEG - it went rather well all things considered. They ended up giving Jon 1 1/2 chloral hydrate suppositories before he finally passed out. He did real well with the EEG - but surely was freaked out by the lab techs that woke him when they took the blood sample for the RAST test!!! He was a bit woozy the rest of the afternoon - and at present is sleeping soundly. Hopefully he will be back to himself tomorrow and we will hear about the results of both test soon! Be Blessed Abundantly, Renee UPDATE: 6-19-03 Tomorrow we go to the allergist in the AM. Jon Jon is retching and vomiting at most every meal, his allergies are out of control and he looks pitiful. We also have an EEG scheduled for 1 PM. There is reason to believe Jon Jon has had a seizure. Incase none of you have had the pleasure of taking your child for an EEG - it is a draining afternoon. We are asked to keep him up to midnight and get him up at 4AM so that he is tired and will sleep during the study. I would love to see a report of the children that actually slept through the study as we have NEVER had that experience. The children I have had get an EEG have/had sensory issues and people sticking electrodes to their head has never gone over big. Besides wanting my son tired they also need him cut off his feeds at midnight....and then nothing but clear liquids till 11 AM. This is not possible for Jon as he can tolerate clear liquids with out reflux and keeping him on a drip feed till midnight will cause great discomfort and vomiting. Poor little fellow. Pray that our day goes smooth as between the allergist and then a 2 hour long EEG - we should be pretty spent tomorrow! Be Blessed Abundantly, Renee UPDATE: 6-17-03 Just wanted to keep you updated - as I said - this is a busy few weeks for Jon Jon. The gastroenterologist was pleased with Jon Jon's weight gain - at 37 months he is 28 pounds 13 1/4 ounces!!! He is still concerned about Jon Jon's bowel movements - or lack there of. We had blood work done and have several test that will be ran - a gastric emptying and a barium enema. There are several factors we must rule out. He also agreed to let me try a different formula with Jon that is made out of "real" food. I am very excited about the prospects of allowing Jon Jon to have something that is more "natural" than chemically based, overly processed food. The formula will be here tomorrow and we will introduce it slowly and prayerfully he will do well. Jon Jon is having a terrible time with his allergies right now. He is retching and vomiting and almost every meal. He has dark circles under his eyes and has slept A LOT the past two days. The weather and humidity are not helping us. He is just so pitiful. His allergies are causing him to experience sensitivity in his ears and he spends a lot of time pressing his hands over his ears. I will be so thankful for a break in the weather! Jon Jon also will be getting casted for his orthotics on Thursday. Thanks, as always for your prayers and support. Be Blessed Abundantly, Renee UPDATE: 6-14-03 Seems this is a busy month for Jonathon as far as doctor appointments go. We are still having issues with constipation and we will be seeing the GI doctor on Monday. We will be focusing on this issue again to see what we can do. Jon Jon is in need of new orthotics for his feet - and will be casted on Thursday and hopefully receive his orthotics soon as he is extremely fat footed and is turning his feet and legs inward. We will also be ordering a Benik's vest - it is a weighted vest to give Jon Jon the deep pressure his body seems to require. Jon Jon also needs equipment for "listening therapy" (a sensory-neural integration therapy). I am sure all this comes with fighting the insurance company to get what Jon Jon needs! We did get our new pump and it is wonderful - the tubing is rather sensitive so we get a few more alarms than I would like, but Jon Jon and I are LOVING the freedom we have while he is eating!! He walks all over the house and we are not tied down to a feed for 45 minutes! It is such a relief - we actually enjoy feeding a bit better! We also have an appointment with the surgeon about possibly removing Jon's j-tube (not his g-tube - he will have this for a LONG time) and an appointment with the ENT to talk about possibly removing Jon's tonsils and adenoids. Jon Jon is doing so well - the listening therapy has made a dramatic improvement in his "speech" and he is currently only doing it twice a week. Once we get the equipment it will be every day for a certain amount of time each day. I can only anticipate the improvement in his development then!! I ask that you continue to keep Jon Jon in your prayers. He has come so far in such a short time. His progress amazes me daily. He still has quite a way to go ~ but he is definitely headed the right direction! UPDATE: 6-01-03 I had a long talk with Jon Jon's Physical Therapist the other day. The good news is Jon Jon has reached most of the goals she has set forth - the bad news is, he can not reach the other goals as his vision impairment gets in the way. These are things he can do - if he has a "set of eyes" that can help him - a person or a way of defining his space/environment around him. She will be getting together with his vision therapist to hopefully get a game plan together and see if some type of "cane" training would benefit him. Jon Jon does wonderful at home as far a ambulating, but when he gets in a very unfamiliar area - that is large that he is unable to define the space around him - he is lost. He relies on others to let him know where everything is. The PT also explained some other areas he was being affected by his vision impairment and suddenly so many things made sense to me. I had no idea I was putting my son in situations that he could not handle because of his inability to see as well as others. (Bad mommy!) Because Jon Jon does so well at home - I often do not see him as a visually impaired child. Jon Jon is also using his feet for sensory input to help him learn about his environment. Not really a big deal for most - but to get the most input he turns his feet inward (towards the inside) - which is causing some irregular bone growth and flat footedness. PT was thinking once he learned to use a cane - some of that would be eliminated. He also has inserts in his shoes with very high arches to help, unfortunately - both his inserts and shoes are now to small. We got new shoes - but won't be able to order the orthotics for a bit. On July 1st Jon will go for an EUA (exam under anesthesia) with two of his three eye doctors, the ophthalmologist and the retina specialist. This is the 5th time in three years he has had to have this particular procedure done, but hopefully we will be able to gather enough information to know where we are at as far as his vision. We will also be seeing the surgeon on the 23rd of this month to discuss the removal of his J-tube. Jon Jon has not used this tube in over 7 months. There is a chance we may be able to have it removed. I am a little nervous as once it is removed - it is gone - it can not be redone. However at this time it is continuing to leak and causing discomfort for Jon, so we will see. (Jon Jon will still have his g-tube as he still takes nothing by mouth and relies on the tube for complete nutrition). Sorry this is long - but I wanted to keep you informed and as always covet your prayers. Be Blessed Abundantly~ Renee UPDATE: 5-23-03 Jon Jon has a new nurse that started last week and we are very excited. She is very committed to Jon Jon and to his reaching his fullest potential. Have to say she has her work cut out for her as Jon can be very obstinate when he does not want to do something or something does not go his way. I am sure in a week or two when he realizes she is not going away and will not be "bullied" he will soften up and we will begin to see great progress. I also want you to rejoice with me in the fact that Jon Jon recognizes several shapes and pictures on a consistent basis with no assistance and diligently ties to use words to name them. Also - with some assistance he can count from 1 to 13 and say his alphabet. We are so proud of him (and he is of himself too). He works so hard to do the simplest tasks that we take so much for granted. I know God has a great work for Jon Jon - I continue to hold on to and encourage myself with Jeremiah 29:11 - For I know the thoughts I think towards you (Jonathon), thoughts of peace and not of evil to give you a future and a hope.... Also - another God thing...we have been wanting a "special" feeding pump for Jon Jon that is very mobile and compact (small enough to wear in a VERY small backpack on his back). To make a long story short - we have gone through a lot of paper work, phone calls and red tape - and we finally got it approved through his insurance and hope to be set up with the DME in the next week or so. This pump should help so much with his feeds and caloric intake. I am so excited I couldn't help but scream praises this afternoon and do a little dance when we found out the news this afternoon. Thank you for all you do - and for all you prayer warriors. It is such a blessing to know I have others to pray for us and rejoice with us. Be Blessed Abundantly~ Renee UPDATE: 5-07-03 Dear Saints, It is with a heavy heart that I write to inform you DCS will be removing Hanna from our home sometime tomorrow. At present Hanna is doing fantastic - she has adjusted to her feed schedule that I had her on and even slept through the night last night. She is smiling and enjoying all the activity our home provides and she is a joy to care for. She even rolled herself over from her back to her tummy! However, she is presently under the authority of one doctor that I can not work with. Her need for control completely goes against my conscience. I do not think that I can do what is best for Hanna and continue to work with the doctors that are over her. DCS is not willing to allow me to work with the doctors of our choosing and that are just if not more qualified. Simply put - it is politics. And for those that know me well, know I don not do well with politics and although I truly have Hanna's best interest at heart it will not work out. I want to let you know that I did all I could for Hanna while she was in our care and that we will continue to hold on to the knowledge that God will be with her. I will also add that although I am saddened by the turn of events - I am completely at peace that I am making the right decision. I will also add that although Michael and I are humbled to be used in this capacity we will voluntarily close our house down and will no longer accept foster children from the state. Thanks for your prayers and support, Renee UPDATE: 5-05-03 I realize this may be redundant as I send something like this out every year - however I would love for you to once again rejoice with me on this monumental day. 3 years ago a little boy was born 3 months too soon, weighing in at 2 pounds 9 ounces, with little chance for survival. After incredible medical intervention he was stable but it didn't seem possible he had much of a chance for survival, born too early, do a mother who was hooked on drugs and then abandoned in the hospital for the first three months of his life. But God had a plan, and His plans are for good and not evil... We are humbled to be part of that little boys life, meeting him at three months old and eventually being able to get him home at 4 months old. The prognosis was grim - he probably wouldn't make it to his 1st birthday, and IF he did he would spend the first year of his life in and out of the hospital because of his poor lungs. We were also told he would never walk, be wheelchair bound or at least need assistive device to aid in walking, not have much "up there", be severely impaired visually..blah, blah, blah I ask you to rejoice with me as my son Jon celebrates his 3rd birthday today. He is FULL of life!! In spite of his visual impairments, he gets around quiet well - with his own two feet - no devices needed! Although the first year was rough he was only hospitalized twice for a total of like 9 days for his lung problems. And although he is limited verbally - he is a VERY smart boy, affectionate, strong willed and very determined! Thanks for letting me brag on the goodness of God - take each day for it's worth and don't sweat the small stuff. A great big Happy Birthday Jon. Be Blessed Abundantly~ Renee UPDATE: 5-03-03 Rejoice with me, friends and family - as today Hanna is here. We got home from the hospital about 6 PM and proceeded to get Jon Jon ready for bed and then overwhelmed Hanna with a bath. We went out to Trisha's funeral and then back home to get her ready for bed. She was already so stressed out -I placed her to bed in her clothes. It is after 9:30 and she is in no hurry to go to sleep - but laying quietly in bed. The next several days (or weeks) will be full of adjustments. There are many things that are still not in place for Hanna and several things that are that conflict with already scheduled things. I ask that you continue to pray for Hanna and that you will also continue to pray for me. I love being used by God in this capacity. I am not sure about Hanna's length of stay - that is not for me to decide - it looks like she would be with us for some time - but you never know. I hope to see those of you I can at church on Sunday if all goes well.....Jon Jon has the sniffles. Be Blessed Abundantly~ Renee
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